Your Love Triangle & Libra New Moon

Hello,

How are you? How is your heart?

We’re in the relationship zone of the year and things are feeling very personal. In Libra we’re balancing our own needs alongside our ‘others’, gracefully showing up for the very real work of getting along, and soon we’ll be wrapped in Scorpio, fully feeling its embrace and getting deep into the heart of what matters.

I’d like to get intimate with you too and invite you to be part of my Love Triangle, a new online workshop I’m holding on LOVE. I’ve been wanting to reveal this for ages so I’m super excited to share it with you now.

It all started with a subject I studied years ago called ‘Patterns and Options in Relationships and Sexuality’. (How cool was my astrology school?) The course began with how our relationships mirror our birth chart patterns and how we unconsciously pick people that match those patterns so they can fulfil them for us, like they haven’t got a choice. The idea is we then get in touch with those parts of ourselves and ultimately ~ hopefully ~ reconcile with them. As you can imagine, this idea was illuminating and confronting, especially when we began looking at our own relationship patterns…

So much about attraction and who we love ~ how we love ~ is unconscious but there’s plenty we can be conscious about. This is what I really want to demystify for you in my workshop. We have loads of choice, especially around who we are and what we can bring to our relationships.

It’s never just our Suns falling in love. I swear there are no incompatible birth charts or Suns that can’t get along. There are only incompatible people, and there is nothing wrong with that. The most important thing we can do is show up as ourselves. How we do that is up to us and how open we are to being honest, real and true.

Our patterns we can work with. Sure, we have a birth chart and a background, parental modelling and societal influencing, but we also have agency and options.

Do we live our birth chart or does our birth chart live us?

FYI, ‘love triangle’ isn’t an official astrological term. It’s one I created because it so evocatively describes the potentially supportive and loving union between our intensely personal planets ~ our Moon, Venus and Mars ~ who come together to express our unique intimate emotional needs, wants and desires. When they’re in sync and looking out for each other, we have so many options. We’re aligned, in flow, able to satisfy ourselves healthily and go after the style of love we want confidently. Ready to meet each other wholeheartedly.

I see our soft-centred Moon at the apex of our love triangle. If we want to relate, we have to take care of our Moon. It tells us all about our emotional needs. When we feed our Moon by acknowledging what it wants, it’s like our belly is full.

The energy flows to Venus. She’s your gold standard ~ if you want to increase your worth and raise your bar, align with Venus. She’s the epitome of self-love and self-prioritisation. Then Mars shows up, fighting for our rights. Usually, we shy away from Mars. We just want the loved-up feeling, but we really need to understand its potency and power so we can act on our own behalf.

In Love Triangle you’ll discover your unique Moon, Venus and Mars energies and how this interplay of planets deliciously feeds and supports each other, leading to a closer and deeper loving life. Understanding how you are their common denominator and have so much to gain from tapping into their combined strength is an absolute pattern breaker.

By getting familiar with the way they love, you can fall in love with your self-esteem and integrity intact. Advocating for yourself and actively pursuing love the way you like, not just while you’re in the process of finding love but all through your relationships, even when the limerence has faded.

There’s no fading when you have the tools and understand the processes to maintain your love.

Your Libra New Moon

The makeup of this Libra New Moon and its synchronicity with my Love Triangle workshop is pretty perfect. They go hand in hand, both offering fresh takes on love and motivating us to find new, elevated ways to relate.

The timing of this New Moon, just two days before Scorpio season, is perfect too. A New Moon is only as good as the cycle that came before it and by now we’ve related through nearly all of Libra. Depending on where Libra falls in our charts, we’ll be aware of what needs to be adjusted. Our personal patterns have revealed themselves, our relationship buttons have been pressed. We have the choice to pause and stay where we are OR press play and graciously commit to authentically moving forward.

This New Moon offers so many ways to encourage us ahead. We can do this ~ our Libran relational parts just have to align with our higher knowing to properly get going. They’re receiving activations from everywhere and while there are potent energies at play, promoting serious growth and transformation, give yourself space to adjust. Take lots of deep breaths as Chiron and Eris opposite heighten the emotion, demanding our attention while bringing up cut to the core triggers and old hurts ~ those not belonging, feeling like an outsider sensations. This might feel destabilising but asks to be felt and faced before healing can happen.

Patterns are so much easier when we don’t have to see them.

I’ve been observing my own relationship patterns and working closely with clients on theirs too ~ unaware, we all bring our personal patterns into our relationships, over and over again. When we do an inventory of our relationships and past loves, the formations we see reoccurring are mind blowing…

This incredibly revealing New Moon allows us to see what happens when we contort ourselves for someone else. When we bend too far in the wrong direction, we make ourselves vulnerable, feel naked, comprise each other and diminish ourselves. We do each other a wild disservice.

At this point, I’m perfectly willing to compromise but I’m no longer interested in overly contorting myself.

I’d much rather show up kindly than nicely, protecting my integrity and preserving our dignity. In the past what I’ve tolerated appears very high but it’s because my Libra has played much too nice, smoothing out what’s felt uncomfortable and not taking into account the growth both parties could have achieved. At this stage of my life, I’m ready to be true to myself.

And you can too. With Mercury (our mind) and Mars (our drive) exactly aligned in Scorpio there’s a we can go there feel to this New Moon, calling for in-depth conversation and your own personal truth telling. Libra pretty much taught Scorpio to relate and with this combination in play we can heighten our commitment to showing up gracefully and connecting fairly without threat or manipulation. Open to honest face-to-face showing up on our new path ahead.

I can’t wait to see you at my workshop for our new, elevated take on love.

We’ll be meeting at 2pm AEDT on Sunday, 16 November. If you’ll be asleep on your side of the world, you can still sign up. You’ll be included and the recording will be sent to you.

My workshops are supportive, very therapeutic, soul-centred and growth-oriented. Your sharing and questions throughout are always supported and encouraged.

If you have any questions about Love Triangle, don’t hesitate to get in touch.

Lots of love,

Kristin xxx

PS: This New Moon at 28º Libra will be at its newest at 11.25pm AEDT, 5.25am PT and 1.25pm GMT on 21 October. This New Moon potential will be very active until Saturday. It begins a brand new cycle of loving so feed it in all the ways you love to fill yourself up.